I had an interesting conversation with a friend of mine recently who quit her job as a waitress; she told me that she quit because the restaurant manager was an asshole, constantly micro-managing the staff and doing the bare minimum himself. She then went on a monologue about how the previous owner (“X”) did the … More I don’t believe in negative reinforcement
Dating multiple women at once can be fun, but it can be extremely tiring. Too much of a good thing is a bad thing; balance is fundamental to a good life. Recently, I’ve been distracted and unfocused because of the women in my life. Spinning plates, reinitiating contact with old plates, adding new girls to rotation … More When reality hits you
I remember when I used to stay up all night thinking about how my date with “the one” who said YES! to me would turn out. I remember how I was extremely nervous. I didn’t know what to wear, I was worried about my hair, I was worried about the venue, I was afraid I … More Getting ready for a date
Laowai is an umbrella term for anyone who isn’t Chinese. Regardless of whether you’re Indian, White, Black, Arab, or Hispanic, you’re a laowai if you’re not Chinese. UNDERSTAND, that there ARE girls who never date laowais. You will never get access to these girls regardless of your SMV, language skills, or exotic factor. On the … More Types of Chinese girls- The Foreign Chaser
The economy operates on a mutual exchange of value. One person hands over their money to someone else in exchange for a product or service because they want that product or service so much that they’re willing to part with their money. Quid Pro Quo. Likewise, human relationships operate on a mutual exchange of value. Your … More Sexonomics, the mutual exchange of value
Deep down as human beings, we all want to be accepted for who we are. For this reason, rejection hurts. When someone rejects you, they’re saying “you’re not good enough for me”, regardless of how nicely they’ve rejected you, it’s still a form of disapproval from another human being. This disapproval eats at us, we … More Embrace rejection
Imagine that you’ve been waiting for the bus for 30 minutes to get to your destination. As this is an irregular bus service, you’re unsure when the bus will arrive. You could call a cab, but by the time it arrives, there is a high chance that the bus would have arrived. Alternatively, you could … More When do you cut your losses?