Most guys are extremely insecure about their looks. They’re worried about their male pattern hair loss, big nose, acne, water retention around their face, or physical attributes in general.
As I’ve mentioned here, a man is attractive to women because of several factors. This can include his financial independence, intelligence, physique, chiseled jaw line, or other positive personality trait. This is because society, and women don’t judge a man by his looks, as we do with women. Rather, everyone judges a man by his accomplishments and success.
While you don’t have to look like a male model, you need to look presentable. This means you have to be well groomed and well dressed. Get a haircut; if you have a beard, keep it neatly trimmed. While you don’t have to go out in a 3 piece suit, you’ll need to wear clothes that fit well. While you don’t have to smell like a bed of roses, you need to make sure that you shower properly and use perfume/ deodorant if you have very bad body odour.
Your looks can only take you so far. Unless you’re looking for a one night stand, as with the vapid, boring woman example, your looks can only help or hinder you so much. On the other hand, if you’re like me and want to have a variety of different girls in rotation, you’ll need to be an overall interesting guy. Do you have your own views on the world? Do you have interesting hobbies? What are your goals and aspirations? What skills have you harnessed from countless hours of dedicated practice? What does your social circle look like?
Gentlemen, to truly be confident, you need to sure of yourself. You need to be sure that you are winning in life, so much so that you feel a sense of entitlement to higher quality women.